Mars vs Venus
Was talking to a female friend earlier when this topic came into mind.
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In general, guys are not very good listener as they are more inclined to be problem solvers - meaning, if they perceive a conversation to be a question, an issue or a problem (even though the problem isn’t theirs, not even remotely connected to them), they will attempt to provide an answer to the best of their knowledge.
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Well, this works pretty well when guys talk to guys, since when guys asked another guy a question or brings up a problem, they are expecting an answer/solution from the other party.
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However, this become slightly more complicated when a gal is involved. Somehow, a gal will slant/phrase a question into a comment/remark and vice versa, phrase a remark/comment into a question. Thus, most often than not, a guy will provide an answer when it is absolutely not required (since the gal is only making a comment and not even remotely waiting for any answer) and worse, not giving an answer when the gal needs an answer (which was posed in the form of a comment)
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Perhaps I’am wrong. But looking at the above scenarios. Answer also die, don’t answer also die. So, you, tell me what to do.
